as if you know who they are,

siapa yang dalam dunia ni tak rasa kawan dia is the best in the world? semua orang akan cakap kawan diorg yang paling baik, yang paling cool, yang paling fun. kenapa? because they're ours! we chose to befriends with them. we know we made the right choice.


persoalannya, is it fair if kita nak cakap kawan orang lain teruk? i mean, just because kita tak kenal kawan orang tu, and kawan orang tu tak macam kawan kita, boleh ke kita nak terus judge benda yang bukan2 dekat orang tu and kawan dia?


for instance, a guy told a girl to be careful with who she makes friends with. this guy reminded the girl that people cannot be trusted, not even her friends. he said he knows well enough about people and dia banyak pengalaman whatsoever.


is it fair?


i'm sure that guy pun ada kawan kan. apa dia akan rasa if orang cakap dekat dia "eh, u shouldn't trust your own friends. they're not what u think they are."


we SHOULD trust our friends. because if we don't, who else should we trust then?


the purpose of having a friend is so that we can depend on each other. we know that we can depend on a friend is when we feel that no matter what happen to this crazy world, we can always count on our friend. in order to have a long lasting friendship, the most basic thing we need to have is trust. without trust, there will be doubt, and when there's doubt, there's not gonna be any friendship!


and what are we without friends?


we don't need to judge other people's friends because each of us is blessed with our own circle of friends. just because we feel that our friends are the greatest, it doesn't mean that other people's friends are not as good as ours.


my friends are the greatest in the whole wide world and i couldn't ask for anything better. i know who they really are inside out and i know i will be alright whenever i am with them.

i just hate it when people starts to talk bad about my friends.

tau la kawan2 kau macam sial kan?